If you wait until you feel like the new you, you’ll end up living as the old you forever. Your brain doesn’t change first. Your actions do. And then your brain quietly goes, “Ah, okay… I guess this is who we are now.” Every time you: – say no instead of overexplaining – stop texting first to prove your worth you’re not being fake. You’re literally rewiring your brain to see you as the woman who is confident in love. It’s not about pretending. It’s about living one tiny step closer to the version

Hotaru Lyrics - Fujita Maiko